
Which bowl of soup was mine? Duh...
 
Traditional Fijian wedding dress for Jasa and Kata as they were married inside the Catholic Church at Naselesele Village--Taveuni, Fiji. The outfits were made from tapa...and, of course, a big feast followed the ceremony, along with the big basins of kava.
 i guess all the women had a bad hair day! The little girl's hair was just fine...no need to hide. (Just kidding!) These wonderful ladies belong to the Cook Islands Catholic Church in Atiu, Cook Islands. They invited me to some refreshments after the service--pastries and fruits. It was quite a heartwarming experience mingling with the very friendly locals.Even in this Taveuni paradise, there lurks danger...but nobody wears hard hats around here, except Nat or J.P. (Paulina's twin boys) during cyclone season. When i lived here, i steered clear of the coconut trees, zigging or zagging this or that way so that i don't walk directly under those skull-crushing missiles. i've heard stories though of people getting slam-dunked with those coconuts and surviving, one just walking away with a moby-sized headache!
Boy! when the flies smell the food, they invite all their friends and neighbors to join in!  Hence, these human flyswatters.  They look bored because though it's a necessary job, it's not a very exciting one.  Yes, there are always many flies in the village--and it takes more than one dedicated flyswatter to really do a good job.  So these four ladies volunteered to wave those leaves over and over (and over!) all that delicious looking party food.Life is a balancing act at times...we do our best with what we've got. And sometimes we get tired of balancing family and job and finances and obligations and a multitude of other important activities. Finally in exhaustion, we just let go, and fall into soothing waters. The tricky part is letting go of the balancing act, letting go of control and surrendering to the Living Water that heals.
Life can be viewed in different ways, depending on one's attitude. Looking at this picture, one can interpret whitewater as exciting, or overwhelming. One will see this as a great ride, filled with wet thrills and extreme dunking; while another will see this same picture as too scary and dangerous to even contemplate doing. Our attitude about life or Life! depends on our belief system--Solomon wrote, "For as he thinks in his heart, so is he."
 No, this is no Chinese buffet!  But the way the Fijians feast, it's as if there were no tomorrow in sight.  When one sits down to this kind of feast (usually during weddings or funerals or some other village celebration), one can eat to their hearts content...the food just keeps coming!  The food usually includes dalo (taro) baked in a lovo (underground "oven"), all sorts of meats and fish, even the Chinese chop suey, although Fijian style (with ramen noodles and less vegetables).  When you've had your fill, you just say "vinaka vaka levu" and roll on out so that another can take your seat.